What you do with now

dearest space cadets...hello. somehow i have returned to cyber-space without any clear idea of what i'm going to share with u guys. I could only say that today is not a good day for me...totally unproductive, highly demotivating and definately not worth talking about. ok enough about me...how have you been...?

WHAT YOU DO WITH NOW.

It is not your fault. But it is your responsibility.

The choices you have made have brought you to where you are now. And so have other factors that are completely beyond your control.

There's nothing to be gained by blaming yourself for the way your life has unfolded. There's everything to be gained by actively taking full responsibility for the way your life proceeds.

The route you traveled to this point no longer matters, for nothing can be done to change it. What truly matters is what you do with now.

Life is always unpredictable, yet there's something you can count on. The more sincerely and diligently you give yourself to the living of it, the more life will go your way.

In this moment is every possibility. Take responsibility for it all, and bring the best of those possibilities to life.

-- Ralph Marston

TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD AND I..

I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELLED BY...

enough for now...catch ya later...

The life that is you

*You can choose to be happy or you can choose to be miserable.

*You can choose to make productive and purposeful use of the moments in this day.

Or you can choose to let the time slip away and be left with nothing but regret.

*Life is what you decide you are going to make of it.

*You can complain that it's all so very unfair,

Or, you can fully accept life as it is

and then experience the genuine satisfaction of making your way forward in spite of the obstacles.

*You can choose to hide behind excuses

or you can open yourself up to the richness of life.

*No matter what has come before, life in this moment is what you decide to make it. *Consider all the possibilities, and then choose the life that is you.* janganlah berputus asa. tapi kalau sampai berada dalam keadaan putus asa, berjuanglah terus meskipun dalam keadaan putus asa.
*kurang semangat mengakibatkan lebih banyak kegagalan berbanding kurangnya kebijaksanaan atau kemahiran

*kekuatan tidak datang dari kemampuan fizikal, tapi ianya datang dari semangat yang tidak pernah mengalah.

DIFFICULT TIMES

surviving
"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.

'" -- Eleanor Roosevelt
"Often my creative life has seemed like a long tunnel, dark and damp. And sometimes I wondered whether I could live through it. But I did!" -- Ai Qing

what's going on
ther sign of health is that we don't become undone by fear and trembling, but we take it as a message that it's time to stop struggling and look directly at what's threatening us."

-- Pema Chodron
"Welcome those big, sticky, complicated problems. In them are your most powerful opportunities."

-- Ralph Marston

Where are you going?
"If you’re going through hell, keep going."

-- Winston Churchill
"If things go wrong, don’t go with them."

-- Roger Babson

Flow
"Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again."

-- Alex Tan

Fly
"If you surrendered to the air, you could ride it."

-- Toni Morrison
"When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it."

-- Henry Ford

Talk it out
"At every crisis in one's life, it is absolute salvation to have some sympathetic friend to whom you can think aloud without restraint or misgiving."

-- Woodrow Wilson

Write it out
"May I make a suggestion, hoping it is not an impertinence? Write it down: write down what you feel. It is sometimes a wonderful help in misery."

-- Robertson Davies

This too shall pass
"If I can endure for this minute whatever is happening to me No matter how heavy my heart is or how dark the moment might be... If I can but keep on believing what I know in my heart to be true, That darkness will fade with morning and that this will pass away, too... Then nothing can ever disturb me or fill me with uncertain fear, For as sure as night brings dawning, my morning is bound to appear..."

-- Unknown

It will, really!
"Day by day nothing seems to change, but pretty soon everything's different."

-- Calvin & Hobbes

In the end...
"Extraordinary people survive under the most terrible circumstances and they become more extraordinary because of it."

-- Robertson Davies

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